mempho reefer
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Hang in there Yarr. DON'T GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!
If you think about it, most of us don't have tanks like the ones you see on the net. Mine was mainly a pile of rocks submerged in water for a long time. Then it turned green. Now it seems to be coming along but no where near the beauty of some others. However, I think mine...and probably yours too....is average. It will never be showcased in a book or tank of the month but it's mine and I'm proud of it. Yeah it sucks when stuff dies or some parameter spikes or dips. Its no fun and it usually cost money or time that I don't have. But, it's my hobby. It's challenging, frustrating, and sometimes sad, But, more than all of that combined it's given me joy, an occasional feeling of great satisfaction....and something to do with my spare time. It's also made my friends ooooo and aaaahhh....but that's because they haven't seen the "showcase" tanks on the web.
Don't throw in the towel. Just step back. Take a deep breath and when you're ready jump back in. Because one day you new kid will love it.
Good luck and congrats to you and the wife on the soon to be new addition.
If you think about it, most of us don't have tanks like the ones you see on the net. Mine was mainly a pile of rocks submerged in water for a long time. Then it turned green. Now it seems to be coming along but no where near the beauty of some others. However, I think mine...and probably yours too....is average. It will never be showcased in a book or tank of the month but it's mine and I'm proud of it. Yeah it sucks when stuff dies or some parameter spikes or dips. Its no fun and it usually cost money or time that I don't have. But, it's my hobby. It's challenging, frustrating, and sometimes sad, But, more than all of that combined it's given me joy, an occasional feeling of great satisfaction....and something to do with my spare time. It's also made my friends ooooo and aaaahhh....but that's because they haven't seen the "showcase" tanks on the web.
Don't throw in the towel. Just step back. Take a deep breath and when you're ready jump back in. Because one day you new kid will love it.
Good luck and congrats to you and the wife on the soon to be new addition.