i have had a cinnamon clown for about a year and a half, obv female by now. But i wanted to pair her up, so i went to the LFS and added a small cinnamon clown, little aggression at first, then more, then more, then i moved them to my new tank, and they just didnt click. Well i added another juvenile, actually still had part of his 2nd white stripe, and they swam right up to each other, strarted bobbing up and down and shivering, and there was still an occasional nip, but now the female even lets the male sleep in the anemone, but its been about a month...dont give up yet, but if the one clown really gets beat up u might want to take it out and try again