I just wanted to update everyone who helped me on this thread!
I had the problem of everything dying after a couple of days in my tank and that kept happening for about 2-3 months. Well at the advice of the LFS I was using tap water for water changes (not knowing any better) and I'm thinking this may have been my problem.
Everyone here told me to get an RO/DI unit, which I did and got it hooked up with the help of Mark (Octoman), and have been doing weekly water changes ever since for a month now.
SO....I took the plunge the other day and made 2 purchases
...... here is one (sorry for the reflection I snapped this really quick before I left for work and it was on my phone so the quality is not great and doesn't do the fish justice!)....
And the other is a flame angel who will not stay still long enough for me to snap a picture of him!
The Sailfin (Popeye we call him) is gorgeous. Without the fins spread I would say he is about 3" and with them spread he is almost 6"-7" and about 4" long. I had the LFS hold him for me when they got him and I checked in on it for a couple of days and it was looking very healthy and plump and eating like a pig! So I bought him and he has been in there about a week now and is doing great! He gets along great with my Foxface (Foxy) and Blue Eyed Kole (No Name) and the Flame Angel (Tigger).
I hope that my past troubles are behind and I haev nothing but happy reefing ahead of me (with of course the trying and tough times that come with the hobby!!)