Could we see a picture of your entire stand and the tank on it? Also detail photos of the corner construction would help.
While you may have some issues with your stand construction, there may also be construction details that we are not seeing. In my opinion, most DIY stands are so overbuilt that there really is no issue. Also, the way it's constructed makes a big difference. For example, you can construct an L girder out of a 1x2 and a 1x3 and it will flex much less and be a lot stronger than a 2x4.