john said:
any chance of me changing it without removing the live rockand corals??i was told i could slowly add the sand a little bit a day and that would work.
All you would be doing is burying the problem and postponing the outcome. Eventually you will need to deal with it or you'll constantly be adding sand until the tank is full.
If you add sand on top of the CC it will slowly make it's way to the bottom and the larger peices of CC will surface again. However this time you will also be forcing the detritious to the bottom of the tank and not removing the real source of the problem, the detritous buildup.
The reason CC isn't considered a good substrate is because it's fairly large and food particles can easily get trapped in the substrate and build up over time. As this detritous is broken down/decays the pH in the substrate lowers and slowly desolves the CC. This does two things, it helps buffer the water in the substrate a little (this is what stores use to sell the CC) but not enough to really benefit the tank over all. The second thing it does is releases phosphates that was previously bound in the substrate. It's the combined effect of having excess nutrients produced from the decaying detritous and the release of phosphates that cause so much of the problems with CC substrates. You do get the same thing happening with aragonite substrates as well but to a lesser extent since the detritous doesn't get trapped as easily in finer substrates.
Your best bet will be to set a day aside, roll up your sleeves and do the job right the first time and get it done and over with.