Hey, I just wanted to say I've been there too... I recently lost several animals, including all my shrimp, (fire shrimp, cleaner shrimp, and banded coral shrimp), my foxface, some of my blue-green chromis, some damsels, (now you KNOW is was bad) and many others. This hobby is very therapeutic for me, my kid's mother abandoned us several months ago, and I'm raising 3 kids on my own(they love my reef) and I'm making hefty house payments on my own... but this hobby is so relaxing when you can just sit in front of your tank and just stare and relax... that's why it hurt so much when it crashed. So you see, I feel your pain. I think about the individual animals that would interact with me and I could even hand feed some of them. Well, I was pretty attached.
Take care and good luck
Aaron