Oh I changed my mind with the size tank, as far as the main tank is considered. I am going with the 20gal long, and I am still going to go with the sump like you guys have suggested. As far as my wife goes, lets just say she is in charge of finace, because if I was, I would have a 200 gal tank and be living on the street. So my wife likes fish and pets in general but I have to butter her up for a month or so, so while I do that, I am researching, researching, and researching. I am going to first make the stand, and then put the fish tank on top and so on and so fourth till it's complete. I am sure it is an expensive hobby but it doesnt have to be that bad if you can DIY. So I hope you guys dont think I am a waste of time for advice, I seriously take it to hart and write down the info, I have a good size notebook coming along.