You LFS store lied. Get a new LFS. (consider standard lecture about LFS often being clueless inserted here)
Metal halide bulbs and ballasts MUST be matched. In other words, you can NOT use a 250w bulb with a 175w ballast. You also can NOT use a 175w bulb with a 250w ballast.
While the mogul socket is the same, and the bulb will fit, if you change to a 250w bulb, you must also replace the ballast.
175w bulbs are easily available. Check online stores. You can even buy them at Home Depot, but they are 6500K bulks and not recommended for a reef system.