Sorry to hear about your mom.
Congrats. My BTA split a while back so I know how you feel. The little guy has never left the others side so now they host my pair of clowns. The male gets the small one the female the larger one. Hopefully yours will settle right in. I hear that the "offspring" is very sensitive at this time so baby it, but I never did anything out of the norm with mine and it is doing great. Almost a year old now. The "mother" is about 18 months. In my tank that is. Just feed it like normal and everything will be great. Congrats again!!!! 
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210gal AGA SW tank. 3 250w MH 4 160w VHOs, 30 gal refuge, ASM Skimmer, Orange shoulder tang, Black tang, Naso tang, 2 orange percs, 2 black percs, 1 lawnmower blenny, a pair of scooter blennies, 5 cleaner shrimp, 5 peppermint shrimp, zebra crabs, halloween crabs, scarlett crabs, various other crabs and snails, 1 rock anemone, 2 colonies of button polyps, 3 colony of star polyps, 3 BTAs, monti cap, various acros |