They are amazing fish.
But having one is like having a small child. Everytime you lose sight of them, you fear the worst.
When i had Jose, I freaked out over everything. If he looked like he was choking on food, I would freak out and consider doing little Fishy CPR.
They are a pain sometimes, but you, I and everyone else who has had one, knows they are worth it.
Hopefully he will come out soon
~Michael