[rlcline76]

My husband would throw a fit if he didn't get to go, even though, when we were first married he was content to not ever go anywhere. I visited him when he was in Germany and I paid for us to go everywhere but it was a blast. Went to the Bavarian Alps, Munich, Nurnberg, Dachau...(it was a lot cheaper in those days, so my bank wasn't completely drained). Said he would have never seen half if those places if I wasn't there.

I plan all of our vacations because actually researching where we are going is not his thing. If I had to worry about finances, I would never get home to see my family. We do a short vacation every year, this year we are going to Colorado. Then after he returns from school, we are trying to get home for a couple of weeks before he leaves the country.