| Shaun, my deepest condolences to you and your family. it is at times like these we need one another to lean on. we are here to talk to either through the boards or via pm. i felt your pain and had a tear well in my eye, and thats not easy, as i have seen mans inhumanity to man firsthand. each and every one of us should say "I love you" to our family members each and every day. for it could be the last. that is something i live by.
i agree that having a tank is great for distracting the mind, if only for a short time.
if you need any help or some one to talk to, reach out to a friend, family, or any friendly ear.
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~Welcome to my nightmare~
I think you're gonna like it
I think you're gonna feel you belong.
A walk to vacation,
A necessary sedation,
You wanna feel at home cause' you belong.
*Disclaimer*
i say this as my best advice to a beginner. do not,,,and i repeat,,,,,DO NOT look at my tank as an example....i have a well practised eye, decades of experience, and a trunkload of failures to allow me to force the issue and get away with things most cannot~ Quote:
Originally Posted by Amphibious  I couldn't agree more on your statement above. With 61 yrs in the hobby, the last 41 yrs in the saltwater end exclusively, I, too, can do things that others should NOT. | |