So.. I already have some more good news. My Dirty Harry is eating. I tried to feed him mysis, he only got 2 pieces because the other fish wouldn't let the food get to him. So, I chopped up some silverside and actually was able to stick my hand about 5" from his burrow and drop the chunks to him. He had about 5 small chunks before he grabbed the 6th one and spit it back out at me. I guess that meant he was full. He seems only intimidated by my Canary wrasse(Slappy) I guess because that is the biggest fish in the tank almost 4" Other than that everything seems great. He is not scared by me coming close to the tank, so I guess its a good thing. I was able to pull the PVC out of his way as he is no longer using it now that he has made his burrow outside of it.
So... here is his living area(dead center in the tank):
And this is him in his burrow after eating
BTW: I noticed the tunnel vision when I dropped a piece of silverside and he looked away and it just dropped to his feet and he didn't see it at all. I know now they can't see too well.
Michael, hope to see your Jose at feeding time video.