No one here would get mad at you. You've come to the right place. Welcome to RS

It sounds like you got a heck of a deal on that tank and all the goodies. The fly fishing in your aquarium for the Wrasse is not unheard of. It is one of many ways to remove an unwanted fish from a tank. It's not all that bad if you use a barbless hook. As for your tank, how long have you had it set up? It sounds like it was already established when you bought it so I'm guessing you just had a mini cycle moving it, is that right? Sounds like you've got more than enough light for some corals of any type and even clams. Do you have any pictures you'd be willing to share with us of your tank, sump, and other stuff? We love pictures here, they're worth a thousand words you know. Well I guess that about sums up my welcome.
Happy reefing!