Some additional points.
If the original tank had ever been medicated, especially with copper, your much better off discarding the sand. It's cheep enough to buy new.
If the original sand was crushed coral or other "not quite right" sand, consider replacing it.
When you wash it, be careful. The sand grains will abrade against each other. You don't need to get everything out. Just wash it until the worst is gone. Any remaining material that clouds the water will settle out as the tank cycles.
Use a wide shallow container for washing the sand. I find a Styrofoam shipping box works well. The ones that are about a foot tall work very well. Fill it with 2 to 3 inches of sand and use a hose to stir it up. This is an outside project. You can wash a lot of sand easily this way.
There is no need to rinse sand in RO/DI water. The amount of water in the sand is nothing to worry about.